The Place of Silence in Emotional Maturity Part3

It’s being a busy week from my end here….

For the past two weeks now, we have being talking about Emotional Maturity in dealing with people and situations around. No doubt, your level of emotional maturity is no more the same now…πŸ‘

However, it is important to know how to use the tool of silence in dealing with issues that is beyond what one can handle.

I remembered telling someone that was always getting on my nerves that ” Silence is gold😐” This made him realized that silence indeed is another weapon of war in winning…πŸ’ͺ🏻

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Ok now, when should we use this weapon of silence in winning argument? It’s important to not here that it isn’t every time is right for you to prove your sincerity even though you are!😳

We’ll be using some instructions in the manual God gave humanity for a profitable living; The Holy Bible as a guideπŸ‘‰πŸ½

WHEN SHOULD YOU BE SILENT? (Matthew 12:36)

1. Be silent In the heat of anger – (Prov 14:17)

2. Be silent When you don’t have all the facts – (Prov 18:13)

3. Be silent When you haven’t verified the story – (Deut 17:6)

4. Be silent If your words will offend a weaker person – (1 Cor 8:11)

5. Be silent When it is time to listen – (Prov 13:1)

6. Be silent When you are tempted to make light of Holy things – (Eccl 5:2)

7. Be silent When you are tempted to joke about sin – (Prov 14:9)

8. Be silent If you would be ashamed of your words later – (Prov 8:8)

9. Be silent If your words would convey the wrong impression – (Prov 17:27)

10. Be silent If the issue is none of your business – (Prov 14:10)

11. Be silent When you are tempted to tell an outright lie – (Prov 4:24)

12. Be silent If your words will damage someone else’s reputation – (Pro16:27)

13. Be silent If your words will damage a friendship – (Prov 16:28)

14. Be silent When you are feeling critical – (James 3:9)

15. Be silent If you can’t say it without screaming it- (Prov 25:28)

16. Be silent If your words will be a poor reflection of the Lord or your friends and family – (1 Pt 2:21-23)

17. Be silent If you may have to eat your words later – (Prov 18:21)

18. Be silent If you have already said it more than one time – (Prov 19:13)

19. Be silent When you are tempted to flatter a wicked person – (Prov 24:24)

20. Be silent When you are supposed to be working instead – (Prov 14:23)

On the whole, remember that “whosoever Guards his heart and tongue keeps his soul from trouble”- (Prov. 21:23)

I hope by now your level of emotional maturity has increaseπŸ‘πŸ»

Do have a blessed dayβœ…

@prolificstella #AddingValueMyCore

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