Hello my male folk. Good to know you are here to read these among thousands of advice that come your way on a daily bases on how to treat your lady positively if you actually want something serious to do with her. I got these from a friend and I feel it will be good to share with you. Trust me; it will improve your relationship with your partner and your female friends especially.







Here are some fact you need to aspect,
1. It is not enough to say ‘I love you.’ You should be able to back up what you say with
action. Any fool can say ‘I love you’ to a woman, but only a real man can back up those words
with action.
2. A lady doesn’t need you to tell her you love her, she wants you to show her that you do. What you do is more important than what you say. Spending time with her, talking with her, listening to her, helping her, praying with her is more important than saying those words.












3. Dude, contrary to what they say in the junk magazines, television shows and novels, the
mark of a real man is not the ability to have sex with a woman. Any fool can do that. When a woman feels emotionally secure with you, knowing that she’s got a great future with you,
that makes you a real man.
4. Asking her to ‘prove’ she loves you by having sex with you is cowardly. Don’t manipulate her for sex. Don’t use her emotional weakness for you to take advantage of her.
5. Dude, are you ready to provide, protect and nurture her? If you can’t provide for her, what
on earth are you doing with her? Just so we are clear, ‘nurturing’ does not include having sex
with her.








6. Are you man enough to help her manifest her dream? It is easy to drop your pants, but can you devote years of your life, your money, your energy, your resources to making sure
that her dream is fulfilled? Are you man enough to help her dream become a reality
and not kill it?
7. Are you man enough not to be intimidated by her intelligence, beauty, success and riches?
Are you man enough not to compete with her? If she intimidates you, maybe you guys don’t
belong together. And don’t try to intimidate her to submit to you when she’s not married to
you. If she cannot willingly agree with you on important decisions, don’t waste your time with
8. Let’s talk about money. She is NOT supposed to provide for you. That is your responsibility
as a man. She’s not your ATM, neither is she your bank. If you need money, go and work for
it. Get a job. If that is not enough, get another job. Don’t let her money be the reason why
you are with her. If she wants to give you her money, let that be HER own decision, not

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9. Are you man enough to tell her the truth? Stop wasting her time with all your lies and
crazy stories. If you are not ready to get married to her let her go! Why do you pretend
to be what you are not? Why do you lead her on knowing that you will eventually break her
heart? That is very wicked of you.






10. ‘I love you’ could be the most meaningless words on the planet if they do nothing to
change the marital status of the lady you are with. She wants to get MARRIED to you and not
just waste her life hanging out with you. Dude, man up! Take concrete steps towards marriage
and prove that you are not a time wasting.


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  1. Every word pen down on your advice is good, but there is still more untouched no man is a God to get all that done for her that her parents could not do for over 25-3oyear before he met her…some guyz have done more than you expressed and it is all zero… proverb18:22 have spoken!


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